Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Mistake Number Thirteen of the Top 14 Mistakes Not to Make for Traditional Surrogates and Gestational Carriers: Not Visiting a Psychologist if Relationship Problems Arise

Mistake 13-Not visiting a psychologist if relationship problems arise


Why you NEED to do this: Hopefully you and your Intended Parents have already had a visit with a Mental Health Professional. It is so important to establish a relationship with someone who can support you emotionally when you are going into a surrogacy arrangement especially when you are going Independent...with out the help of an agency.

In every relationship misunderstandings happen and problems arise. Some are small and annoying while others can be shocking and perhaps alarming. When this happens you need to have someone to talk to. A third party that can see the entire issue, not be emotionally involved themselves and give good solid advice. When there is a failure to communicate then problems can swiftly spiral out of control and the next thing you know you might be thinking these people aren't worthy of having a baby! That kind of thinking is one of many warning signs that prove you need to have someone step in and help assess the situation no matter what it may be.



Sharon LaMothe Infertility Answers, Inc. http://infertilityanswers.org/ LaMothe Services, LLC http://lamotheservices.com/ *Please note: Sharon LaMothe is not a MD, is not an attorney nor does she hold a mental health degree. All advice given is solely the experienced opinion of Ms. LaMothe. If you have any medical, legal or psychological questions or concerns, please contact your own Doctor, Attorney or Mental Health Professional.

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